Clients often ask us how pension division happens for Individual Retirement Accounts, 401Ks, and other retirement plans during a divorce. After years of investing in these accounts, dividing them up can be a big concern even if the spouses are nowhere near retirement age. There are several ways to proceed with a pension division of […]
Child Support And Extra Curricular Activities
Extracurricular Activities Typically, child support guidelines distinguish between child-related expenses that are included in the basic child support award and entertainment-related expenses. Entertainment-related expenses are generally not included in basic child support awards. Thus, the non-custodial parent (one who does not have physical custody) does not have to contribute to the cost associated with extracurricular […]
Telling Your Child About The Divorce
Campbell, seven years old, was sitting in my office, trying to learn how to get along better with children on the playground. In the midst of describing how difficult it was to remember which parent was supposed to help her with her homework that night, she whispered: “Can I tell you a secret that really […]
Flu Is Here: 5 Things Parents Must Do
The flu is here, big time. According to the most recent influenza (flu) surveillancefrom the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC): * 29 states are reporting high activity, 16 are reporting moderate (up from 9 the week before) and 47 say that there are flu cases throughout the state. * Hospitalizations for flu have […]
Going Through A Gray Divorce? Focus On Your Retirement Savings
Chalk it up to longer lifespans, broader cultural acceptance of divorce or the effects of an empty nest, but calling your marriage quits later in life is becoming increasingly common. A study from the National Center for Family & Marriage Research at Bowling Green University in Ohio found that one in four people going through […]
Cooking For Dads: Single Parent Cooking Made Simple
Welcome to my healthy “cooking for dads” section. But wait…. …I’m not a single father! And no, I’m not even a guy. I’m a female and I’m a registered dietitian! However, I’m here to help you with dad cooking. I was inspired to write a cooking for dads section after watching my boyfriend- who happens […]
Sharing Special Events
One of many emotionally wrenching decisions divorced parents are forced to make is how to share time with their children during holidays, school vacations, and during other special events (Mothers Day, Fathers Day, or parents’ birthdays). Here are a few strategies to consider in making a plan for sharing holidays. Please see Ten Tips for […]
Going Through A Divorce With A “Special Needs” Child In Texas
Going through a divorce can be a difficult time for all family members, including the children. The stress of dealing with a child that has a serious illness or difficulty prior to the initiation of a divorce may accelerate during the divorce process. We call such a child the “Special Needs Child”. This child has […]
Relocating With Children After Divorce
People move or relocate all the time and for all sorts of reasons. A new job may take you to a new city, state or even a new country. Maybe you want a change of scenery, or perhaps to move back to the childhood neighborhood you left years ago. Whatever the reason, moves aren’t a problem for many people, other […]
When Your Kids Don’t Get Along
“Mommy he hit me!” “But she started it!” The sound of squabbling in stereo is enough to make you pull out your hair. If there are siblings, there is sibling rivalry. It’s a family fact of life. Throw twins or triplets into the mix the intensity significantly increases. Simply stated, sibling rivalry is the competition […]